Believe...

A friend of mine received this through her email.
Then she passed it on to me.
I am , in turn passing it on to you.
I think you will find it a very interesting read.
Take care everyone.


Things you Should Believe...
That a birth certificate shows that you were born.
A death certificate shows that we died.
Pictures showed that we lived.
I Believe...
That just because two people argue...It doesn't mean that they don't love each other
And just because they don't argue,it doesn't mean that they do love each other.
I Believe...
We don't have to change friends, if we understand that friends change.

I Believe...
That no matter how good a friend is,they are going to hurt you every once in a while,
and you must forgive them for that.

I Believe...
That true friendship continues to grow,even over long distances.
Same goes for true love.

I Believe...
That you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I Believe...
That it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I Believe...
That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I Believe...
That you can keep going long after you think you can't.

I Believe...
That we are responsible for what we do no matter how we feel.
I Believe...
That either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I Believe...
That heroes, are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I Believe...
That money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I Believe...
That my best friend and I, can do anything and/ or nothing and have the best time.

I Believe...
That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I Believe...
That sometimes when I'm angry, I have the right to be angry but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I Believe...
That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you’ve learned from them, and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

I Believe...
That it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others; sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I Believe...
That no matter how bad your heart is broken; the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I Believe...
That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are but we are responsible for who we become.

I Believe...
That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret; it could change your life forever.

I Believe...
Two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I Believe...
That your life can be changed in a matter of hours, by people who don't even know you.

I Believe...
That even, when you think you have no more to give when a friend cries out to you – you will find the strength to help.

I Believe...
That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I Believe...
That the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

I Believe....
That the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of anything. I Believe.... That you should send this to all of the people that you believe in, I just did.

'Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.' I Believe!!!

Thar She Blows!......I mean my nose

How is it that a person can be a totally, close to, normal member of the human race, then in a heartbeat, be quickly reduced to a sniffling (not sniveling) idiot? Sniffling sounded less groveling and more a medicinal description. This is close to the grand importance of the " What is the Meaning of Life?" question. How is it that you never have enough Kleenex tissues....or store brand tissues, in the house, when the sneezing and the need to decompress the nasal passages starts? And how does your nose ever make it through the constant repetative action of blowing and wiping? How do I choose alternate methods for clearing out what obviously doesn't belong in my poor breathing apparatus? Do I consume mass quantities of hot tea and soup, then partake in the vicious circle of multiple trips to the bathroom? Or do I reach for the Tylenol/Advil, NyQuil/Sudafed selection? Will it be natural or an an advetisement riddled solution tomy inconvinience? Why am I rambling? How long will this last? Doesn't my body realize that I don't have time for this?! Dam?....Damn!

Couldn't Have Planned It Any Better....

Never underestimate the power of life's little rewards...
It seems to me that there isn't much of a drum roll, or reflex reaction to the amazing, near perfect moments. Maybe because they may only last for a short time. And if we blink, we miss it. We are conditioned, or made cynical, to believe that the good times are meant to last forever...(or pretty dam near close). Granted, if you are very fortunate a few experiences will last a lifetime. But, why can't some of it be a series of small, I couldn't have planned it any better if I tried, moments?
For instance: Have you ever picked up the phone to call someone? You start to push buttons and then hear a voice. And it's the very person you were trying to call. What are the chances?! I had that with my mom. It had happened multiple times. Not much of a big deal to some people. But, what are the odds for it to happen not just once, but several times. And that's a memory I'll always have.
Here's another. Since I have lived in my town, my neighbors next door and I have had the uncanny coincidence of leaving our houses and/or arriving back at the same time. And I don't mean the same hour of the day each time.It's been different clock times, different days of the week. We can run different errands, go out to eat, go visiting and the result is still the same. We laugh and smile all the time. It is odder for this not to happen. It's funny to have that to look forward to.
Even more important, did you ever think how you "lucked out" meeting that special someone? How you were in the right place at the right time. How did you find your close friend(s)? Or just when you think you'll never be surprised by life, in a good way...something happens....just when you needed it too.
Granted some directions in life need work and preparation. But, all of life is not meant to be mapped out. People and situations will present themselves to you. So next time, take a calming breath. Take notice, smile, and think, "What are the chances?".

Can't Fight the Moonlight.....

Just so you are aware, I am only midely annoyed with this situation. No, really. Though the tone of this entry may suggest otherwise...
What is it with the time surrounding a full moon? I now believe wholeheartedly that certain people run with the notion to be extreme. Case in point: Driving. For the past couple of days I have been a "drive up and over my car" magnet. Doesn't matter where I am or what time of day it is. I'm putt- putting along. Minding my own business ("innocent whistling"....that's just for effect, you know). Then all of a sudden I'm being tailed, bumpered, if you will. If there is more than one lane I am more than happy to move over, or pray that they will. But, of course, this type of thing only seems to happen on a single lane, stretch of road.
Isn't that another one of Murphy's Laws? Or the bread falling jelly side up or down ratio? So best I can say is driving around lately is a jelly- side- down experience. I have even tried to combat it with taking side streets to lose my new found driving "buddy". But no!!! The AAA gods have decided that this cannot be allowed to happen. As it turns out, no matter what I do, that person is right there behind me when I'm back in the original driving pattern. Or sometimes, I end up behind them. Why???
Yet,when I'm following a friend, to a destination, or them following me, it is never choreographed so percisely. You travel a few blocks.They pull over. You catch up. You are stuck at a a traffic light. They pull over again. (They are sooo nice.) A 15 minute trip turns into an hour! Poor friend. Poor you.
Anyway....it's one thing to, in your head, plan out a cohesive strategy when driving from point A to point B. You know, so you link your stops correctly so as not to waste gas or so the frozen foods don't have a meltdown. It's entirely another to have to sit in the car, before turning the ignition, and plan out an defensive/offensive automotive plan. Kind of like a war game/board game or video RPG (without the cool personas and creative gear).
Just makes you wonder if this is what these particular people do with their days. Is it marked on their calendar.....Circled, thenX'd out, one day at a time ....Hmmmm,full moon coming.This is when I'm going to hit the road and get on the nerves of my fellow drivers ( deep, spooky laugh, by them......again for effect). Or is it as simple as, me having a sort of bumper hanging version of a "Kick Me" sign attached to the rear of my vehicle?
Oh well. That moon phase is about done with for now. Until next month, when I can look forward to (mentally prepare for) this all over again. At least there are some constants in life, huh??

New Kid on the Blog......sorry 'bout that

Morning, though almost not. Just trying my hand at blogging. I figured that if I could ramble, with meaning and content, in the form of college essays, not so recent...lose track of time while updating friends on "What's new?" , this shouldn't be too much of a stretch. I guess that will remain to be seen. And best not to make any promises. If nothing else it will serve to make new friends and acquaintances. Cross your fingers.